I flew to New York last week for a company offsite, and came back feeling incredibly proud.

It was packed with brainstorms, bonding, and a ridiculous amount of good food.

But one moment stood out for me.

I got to lead a workshop on something that’s quietly shaped my entire career:

How we communicate.

More specifically:

How each of us has a unique communication style, and how understanding that style can make us better teammates, collaborators, and humans.

(this is me leading the workshop):

Here’s the TL;DR of what I shared:

We all fall into four communication “colors” based on how we show up.

Want to figure out your color?

Ask yourself these three questions:

  • Am I more introverted or extroverted?

    • Introverted = 🔵 Blue / 🟢 Green

    • Extroverted = 🔴 Red / 🟡 Yellow

  • Am I more logical or emotional?

    • Logical = 🔵 Blue / 🔴 Red

    • Emotional = 🟢 Green / 🟡 Yellow

  • Do I speak more deliberately or quickly?

    • Deliberate = 🔵 Blue / 🟢 Green

    • Quick = 🔴 Red / 🟡 Yellow

Whichever color shows up the most across your answers?
That’s likely your dominant style.

The magic happens when you use this same lens to understand others.

Think of a teammate, what color might they be?

It instantly changes how you approach them.

More empathy and less friction.

This workshop reminded me how powerful self-awareness is.

If you’re curious to learn more about this, I’d highly recommend watching this video:

-Alif

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